5 Things You Will Never Get If You Are Patient

It has never been easy being patient, but it’s probably harder now than at any time in history. Patience is a virtue that can be cultivated and nurtured over time. You will be pleasantly surprised by how relaxation and peace of mind can impact the quality of your life.

5. IF YOU WILL NOT BE PATIENT YOU WILL NOT GET THE RIGHT OPPORTUNITY:

Patience as a word wouldn’t even exist, if all of us were okay with waiting. We just wouldn’t know that something different than our normal state exists. And we wouldn’t define our normal state as patient. Because we wouldn’t be able to recognize that there is something to talk about. We wouldn’t know what we wouldn’t know.

4. IMPATIENT ABOUT ACHIEVING: 

Understand that you are not really impatient to get to your goal. You are impatient to prove that you Can get to your goal. Try to focus a little bit less on your own ability to get to that goal, and a little bit more on the joys that the process to goal gives to you.

3. THE CYCLE OF FEELING IMPATIENT AND THEN HAVING TO BE PATIENT:

To avoid having to be patient, you have to avoid feeling impatient. To avoid feeling impatient, you have to avoid feeling the fear that what you want won’t happen. To avoid feeling this fear, you have to avoid falling in the trap that if your goal does not materialize your life will end.

2. GOAL IS IMPORTANT:

When we are impatient the stakes are really high. Actually the more impatient we are, the higher the stakes, the more important our goal is for us, the more desperate we are. Luckily for us, there are rare times that if we don’t get to a goal, our actual life will end. Thus, the stakes may be perceived as life-or-death, but they are not really.

1. TRY TO FOCUS A LITTLE BIT MORE:

You will gradually start feeling better about your situation. You will gradually start worrying less about whether you will get to your goal or not. You will gradually start enjoying life more, and more. So, being patient is sometimes not a healthy habit.